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💙🧡Childhood Sexual Abusers start the “Grooming” process with parents early on. This process is there they build a special relationship where the parent trust them, then it becomes much easier to gain the child’s trust. . . 💙🧡To help 💪🏾protect your children, you should 🗣discuss body safety rules, and boundaries with every adult and older teen who is around your child. Utilizing my book “My Voice is My SuperPower” is a great tool to help this effort. Feel free to contact me directly so I can place your copy in the 📬mail, along with all other shipments going out today. . . . . #books #bookstagram #book #reading #booklover #bookworm #bookish #read #bibliophile #instabook #booknerd #bookshelf #bookaholic #b #bookaddict #bookstagrammer #love #booksofinstagram #libros #reader #author #bookphotography #instabooks #library #art #libri #booklove #literature #booklovers #buddyspeaks

🦃Thanksgiving is one of the most traveled, and fulfilling times of the year. Families come together to enjoy their favorite food, friends, games, and to develop great memories. . . 🦃While enjoying this day with those we love, and may not have seen in over a year, we still have to make sure our children have memories for all the right reasons.. . 🦃Prevention education is very important everyday, but especially during these times of the year. We must reduce opportunities for abuse by minimizing 1:1 situations with our children adults or older teens. . 🦃Always remember to review the body safety rules before heading out, or greeting their guest who come to visit. . 🦃Do Not force your children to give hugs or kisses. . 🦃Never force them to sit on someone’s lap. . 🦃Trust your instincts if you witness someone that is not respecting a child’s boundaries, and more interested in spending time with younger kids than their peers. . 🦃Create the Code Word if our kids need to talk privately but don’t want to alarm everyone in the room.. . 🦃Check in at the end of the night to ask your child if they had fun, were you comfortable at all times, did anyone break the body safety rules, and do you feel safe. . These are a few tips to help keep our children safe during the holidays, and any day. . 🦃Always remember 90% of the children who suffer from sexual abuse are familiar with the perpetrator, which in most cases are family members or close friends. #buddyspeaks #thanksgiving #safety #childhoodsexualabusesurvivor #childhoodsexualabuseawareness

💪🏾Even when you feel you are backed into a corner , have no one to talk to, are 😞ashamed of your pain, and may want to change your situation, but you’re too stuck to move, and want to 😢cry. Keep 🥊fighting, don’t give up! You and you’re battle may become someone else’s inspiration. . . 💪🏾Have a Wonderful Wednesday Family! . . . . #boxing #mma #fitness #kickboxing #muaythai #ufc #bjj #training #fight #boxingtraining #gym #martialarts #boxeo #motivation #workout #jiujitsu #wrestling #fighter #sport #boxer #karate #champion #fitnessmotivation #fit #grappling #sports #boxinglife #judo #mixedmartialarts #buddyspeaks

💙🧡My journey has just begun. It may look easy, but trust me, it wasn’t. The work I do isn’t for fame, fortune, or fun. This is real-life work that effects so many people we encounter daily. . . 💙🧡I know I've had a vision. I wanted to use my personal experiences, my voice, my career as an educator, and my passion for helping protect children and support adults who are fighting the pain of childhood sexual abuse and sexual assault the best way I could. . . 💙🧡I needed help, I needed guidance, I needed someone to help me bring my vision to a platform, and audience who needs help. That’s when I was introduced to @beyouinhd, and she became my coach. I thank Allah and my coach for guiding me to where I am today. Many have asked how did I do it, and you want to do it too. My Coach @beyouinhd is impressive! Nah, she’s a BOSS BABE who knows what to do, and ready to give you the tools. I’m humbled, honored, and beyond grateful for her and her expertise. She is more than a coach, she’s a friend, sister in Islam, and has been great support along my journey. Thank you @beyouinhd! . . #sexualassault #metoo #sexualabuse #ptsd #abuse #manipulation #awareness #youarenotalone #rapevictim #domesticviolence #rape #timesup #trafficking #support #survivor #documentary #explore #emotionalabuse #instagram #childabuse #consent #rkellyfeds #azrielclary #rkelly #rkellyjail #stop #michellekramer #joycelynsavage #singer #buddyspeaks

🦃Holiday Time. . . 🦃Thanksgiving is one of the most traveled, and fulfilling times of the year. Families come together to enjoy their favorite food, friends, games, and to develop great memories. . . 🦃While enjoying this day with those we love, and may not have seen in over a year, we still have to make sure our children have memories for all the right reasons.. . 🦃Prevention education is very important everyday, but especially during these times of the year. We must reduce opportunities for abuse by minimizing 1:1 situations with our children adults or older teens. . 🦃Always remember to review the body safety rules before heading out, or greeting their guest who come to visit. . 🦃Do Not force your children to give hugs or kisses. . 🦃Never force them to sit on someone’s lap. . 🦃Trust your instincts if you witness someone that is not respecting a child’s boundaries, and more interested in spending time with younger kids than their peers. . 🦃Create the Code Word if our kids need to talk privately but don’t want to alarm everyone in the room.. . 🦃Check in at the end of the night to ask your child if they had fun, were you comfortable at all times, did anyone break the body safety rules, and do you feel safe. . These are a few tips to help keep our children safe during the holidays, and any day. . 🦃Always remember 90% of the children who suffer from sexual abuse are familiar with the perpetrator, which in most cases are family members or close friends. #buddyspeaks #thanksgiving #safety #childhoodsexualabusesurvivor #childhoodsexualabuseawareness

🤚🏾Always allow children to show how they want to show affection. An essential part of body safety education is to teach children that they can refuse to hug or kiss anyone, and people need permission to show any form of affection and must ask permission to hug or kiss a child as well. . . 🖐🏾Teaching this skill when a child isn’t in an unsafe situation, will help protect them if they are faced with a dangerous situation. . . . #childsafety #buddyspeaks #children #evoxyz #watersafety #safety #saferworldtochildren #kids #endsexualharassment #safetytips #endrape #nigeria #child #parenting #babysafety #wecare #everychildmatters #prevention #swimming #ganeshchaturthi #mysafeganesha #safekidsathome #safepune #firesafety #helpthechildren #safekidsfoundation #baby #peaceofmind #changemaker #voicesofchange2018tm

💫💫SET GOALS, 💥CRUSH GOALS, THEN REPEAT. . . 💫As Salaamu Alaykum and Good Morning Family! Have an amazing day! . . . #goals #motivation #fitness #love #inspiration #success #gym #lifestyle #life #entrepreneur #workout #instagood #fitnessmotivation #business #health #fit #mindset #fitfam #weightloss #follow #like #dreams #training #healthy #happy #couplegoals #hustle #bodybuilding #quotes #buddyspeaks

LONG POST WARNING . . 😞Triggers are very real! Every so often, I will share my truth, with the hopes that I will inspire others and give someone living in silence a reason to break their silence. Here’s one of those moments. . . 😞I was looking at a post from another advocate’s page yesterday. It was a video of a beautiful bathtub, soft music, and positive self-care words. I watched it and suddenly became triggered. I don’t know if it was the music, the tub, the words, or the things around the tub. None the less, although it was meant to soothe Survivors, it took me back to the day I was violently raped on a date. I was a teen (Perhaps the age 18 or 19) and never spoke a word to my mother. I was afraid I would get in trouble because he tricked me into going to his house so he could use the bathroom. . . 😞After he raped me, he kicked me out of his house, and I had to walk home. I cried all the way home, and as soon as I got home, I took a shower. I tried to scrub his scum off of me. I attempted to scrub my pain away; I tried to scrub the memories away. This happened over 20 years ago, but yesterday’s trigger made it feel like it happened the same day. I used my coping skills to work through the episode. My daughter noticed me working through my trigger and wanted to help. Instead, I fought through that painful memory, calmed down my breathing, and grounded myself. . . 💪🏾I gained strength and refused to go back to Victim state. I did it! I persevered, fought my thoughts alone, and cooked a fantastic pot of tomato soup. I turned a terrible memory into a moment of resilience and strength! . 💪🏾I DID THAT!! YOU CAN DO IT TOO! I AM A WOARRIER, THRIVER, SURVIVOR, I AM ME!!

🗣I have dedicated the rest of my life to education, empowering, and bringing awareness to support, and help end childhood sexual abuse. What will you use your voice for? . . 🗣My Voice Is My SuperPower. If your intend to use yours to help change the culture, provide support to Survivors, and end childhood sexual abuse, then please like, my post, place a 🗣 in the comments, then follow my page. . . #publicspeaking #publicspeakingclass #publicspeaker #leadership #btbs #motivation #communication #inhousetraining #publicspeakingcoach #entrepreneur #publicspeakingsurabaya #trainingmc #trainerpublicspeaking #pelatihanpublicspeaking #training #education #speech #inspiration #publicspeakingtraining #toastmasters #pemateriprotokol #pematerimcsurabaya #mentormc #mentorpublicspeaking #keprotokolan #trainermc #emilfaizza #diklatkeprotokolan #trainermcsurabaya #buddyspeaks

🗣I have dedicated the rest of my life to education, empowering, and bringing awareness to support, and help end childhood sexual abuse. What will you use your voice for? . . 🗣My Voice Is My SuperPower. If your intend to use yours to help change the culture, provide support to Survivors, and end childhood sexual abuse, then please like, my post, place a 🗣 in the comments, then follow my page @buddy_speaks. . . #publicspeaking #publicspeakingclass #publicspeaker #leadership #btbs #motivation #communication #inhousetraining #publicspeakingcoach #entrepreneur #publicspeakingsurabaya #trainingmc #trainerpublicspeaking #pelatihanpublicspeaking #training #education #speech #inspiration #publicspeakingtraining #toastmasters #pemateriprotokol #pematerimcsurabaya #mentormc #mentorpublicspeaking #keprotokolan #trainermc #emilfaizza #diklatkeprotokolan #trainermcsurabaya #buddyspeaks

🤗This sums up my level of excitement after receiving an email delivery confirmation for updated books with edits! . 🤗Publishing for the first time isn’t as easy as many think. I thank everyone for their patience with me during the process, and am ready to schedule book readings. . 🤗Drop me a 📙 in the comments below if you’re just as excited as I am. . . . #books #bookstagram #book #reading #booklover #bookworm #bookish #read #bibliophile #instabook #booknerd #bookshelf #bookaholic #b #bookaddict #bookstagrammer #love #booksofinstagram #libros #reader #author #bookphotography #instabooks #library #art #libri #booklove #literature #booklovers #buddyspeaks

💪🏾When you’re being tested and have to face some of your most challenging trials, you must realize some steps need to be taken alone. It’s the only way to figure out what you need to do, where you need to go, and how you need to handle it. . . 💫💫Have a Magnificent Motivational Monday Family!

💙🧡If you’re reading this, you might have found at some point in your life that you were on your own, searching for words to name what was happening to you. Without the knowledge that there is help and support, we tend to struggle in silence, in the dark, while trying to understand why. . 💙🧡Sexual Abuse is a significant public health problem. The effects are complex, damaging, and change the life and attitudes of Survivors. The after-effects last a lifetime. . 💙🧡Many find it difficult to accept that offenders are often friends or family members, who they love and support. Survivors are left alone, unsupported, and not believed. . 💙🧡I am here to SUPPORT Survivora and their care takers. Rather it happened 20 years, 20 months, 20 days, 20 hours, 20 minutes, or 20 seconds ago, I am here for you. I share my story so you can know you're not alone. Let's come together and continue to heal. . . . . #support #love #follow #like #community #instagram #likeforlikes #share #music #life #followforfollowback #comment #fashion #charity #family #motivation #health #likes #help #friends #instagood #donate #buddyspeaks #photography #mentalhealth #artist #hiphop #repost #followme #voicesofchange2018tm .

💻GROOMING . . ⌚️Predators “Groom” parents, children, and Teens. Their goal is to establish a level of comfort with you, to confuse the child, cross boundaries, and have a secret sexual relationship with the victim. Grooming isn’t reserved for younger children. Sexual Predators also Groom teens, but with a different tactic. . . 💰The perpetrator will pretend to be your Teen’s confidant, put them in isolated environments, and shower them with expensive gifts. . . 📱If you notice your child with expensive gifts from a trustworthy family member, authority figure, Coach, or baby sitter, be sure to keep an open door of communication, and be vigilant with making sure the perpetrator stays far away from your child because you’re aware of what they’re trying to establish. . . #teenager #teen #girl #love #highschool #teens #kids #buddyspeaks #school #teengirl #like #yearsold #photography #fashion #beautiful #fun #summer #teenagerposts #photo #education #model #boy #cute #girls #teenagers #family #relatable #follow #aesthetic #voicesofchange2018tm

🍂Change is difficult, especially for Survivors. Even when coping in an unhealthy relationship, fighting unhealthy eating habits, or parenting with presents instead of your presence, you can do it. Some of you may feel like you can’t change, it’s too hard, and your current situation is the only way you know how to live. Trust me, I know this oh so well, and GET IT!!. . 🍁Always remember just like the seasons, you have the ability to change. You can change for the best, but must remember this. Every positive change in your life begins with the decision to either do something, or stop something. You can do both, you are capable. I know I am, and I know you have the ability to do it too! . . 🍂Listen to me nice and clear. You got a new story to write. This time, I want you to make sure it looks nothing like your past. . . . #change #love #motivation #life #inspiration #fitness #goals #transformation #growth #nonprofit #quotes #health #success #charity #dogood #socialgood #happy #hope #donate #bethechange #mindset #happiness #education #community #instagood #volunteer #leadership #lifestyle #causes #buddyspeaks

💙Survivors, please know there is hope for you. You’re capable of minimizing or eliminating the effects of the emotional trauma you have suffered as a result of your abuse. . . 💙We will work together to rid your shame, heal the scars, and build a new foundation of strength, empowerment, self-encouragement, and understanding that you are not your trauma or your circumstances. You are deserving of kindness and encouraged to be kind to yourself. . . 💙Rather your goal is the stop letting people walk over you, stop being abused, gain courage and strength to leave an abusive relationship, stop using drugs, stop all self-sabotaging behaviors, or just smile, please know that you are encouraged, you are supported, you are worthy, and deserve kindness and to be kind to yourself. . . . . #trauma #mentalhealth #depression #healing #mentalhealthawareness #ptsd #anxiety #abuse #recovery #love #narcissisticabuse #cptsd #therapy #gaslighting #domesticviolence #narcissist #mentalillness #psychologicalabuse #toxicpeople #crazymaking #sociopath #emotionalabuse #psychology #selflove #verbalabuse #selfcare #buddyspeaks #traumarecovery #surgery #voicesofchange2018tm

💙Survivors, please know there is hope for you. You’re capable of minimizing or eliminating the effects of the emotional trauma you have suffered as a result of your abuse. . . 💙We will work together to rid your shame, heal the scars, and build a new foundation of strength, empowerment, self-encouragement, and understanding that you are not your trauma or your circumstances. You are deserving of kindness and encouraged to be kind to yourself. . . 💙Rather your goal is the stop letting people walk over you, stop being abused, gain courage and strength to leave an abusive relationship, stop using drugs, stop all self-sabotaging behaviors, or just smile, please know that you are encouraged, you are supported, you are worthy, and deserve kindness and to be kind to yourself. . . . . #trauma #mentalhealth #depression #healing #mentalhealthawareness #ptsd #anxiety #abuse #recovery #love #narcissisticabuse #cptsd #therapy #gaslighting #domesticviolence #narcissist #mentalillness #psychologicalabuse #toxicpeople #crazymaking #sociopath #emotionalabuse #psychology #selflove #verbalabuse #selfcare #buddyspeaks #traumarecovery #surgery #voicesofchange2018tm

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Last night...what a REMARKABLE class the Delawsre Chapter of J.E.S.S.I.C.A Cares had with @shariea_shoatz CEO of @buddy_speaks! 💜💖💜 The very important workshop the girls participated in was THE CONVERSATION THAT MATTERS: WHEN SILENCE ISN'T GOLDEN! Powerful! The girls learned so much and that we will be facilitating a Part 2 the first week in May! Although a difficult conversation Ms. Shariea has found a unique way to deliver this topic in a safe, yet fun and engaging way! The girls learned that sexual abuse can happen: 1. Same sex 2. As a teenager 3. And the signs of a predator This sparked such a conversation because many of them were simply UNAWARE...something a predator RELIES on! If you have a youth organization, a masjid or a school, contact Shariea Shoatz to facilitate a workshop our youth and parents NEED! 💜💖💜 💖💜💖 💜💖💜 #jessicacares #buddyspeaks #reclaimingouryouth #reclaimingourcommunites #empowerment #sisterhood #knowthefacts #protectyourself #spreadpositivity #knowledgeispower #delaware

No more silence! Let's talk about it! @Regran_ed from @shariea_shoatz - The after effects of Childhood Sexual Abuse is debilitating, and causes unspeakable damages.. .. 🛑We want to do more than break the Silence. We as parents, community leaders, teachers, and concerned adults need to develop the tools to help STOP the abuse before it begins. . 🛑 Please join us on December 15th @4pm for a candid, honest, educational, and empowering forum so we can issue social issues witnessed in our community surrounding childhood sexual abuse. #buddyspeaks #breakingthesilence - #regrann

Well someone doesn't like that the toilet paper is over and not under!! Volume up listen at the end #fluffmonster #buddyspeaks #overnotunder

#NEIGHBORS - the time is NOW to talk about the hard topics like ... SEXUAL ABUSE!! Please come out THIS SATURDAY at 4PM to learn about how to PREVENT this tragedy from happening to your child and how to HEAL if such trauma has already happened (or how to discover the truth)!! Moms, Dads, Aunties, Uncles - come out. Tickets are only $10! Get your tickets at Buddy Speaks! #BuddySpeaks @buddy_speaks

Friday...Part 2 of the Special Workshops on Sexual Abuse Awareness featuring @shariea_shoatz CEO and Founder of @buddy_speaks! 💖💜💖 This Friday the girls will pick up where they left off with regard to educating themselves about Sexual Abuse! This Friday they will learn: 1. The definition of Sexual Abuse contact and non contact 2. Discuss Body Safety Rules 3. Play the What If Game with Scenarios to help reduce vulnerability to sexual assault 4. Create their own Body Safety Posters 💖💜💖 J.E.S.S.I.C.A. Cares looks to provide a holistic approach to Self Empowerment for our girls and while this may be a difficult conversation to have; this empowers our participants to avoid living in ignorance which can lead to a lifetime of pain and trauma while providing healing and tools for recovery for some who are living this nightmare each day. 💖💜💖 💜💖💜 💖💜💖 #jessicacares #buddyspeaks #sexualabuseeducation #knowledgeispower #empowerment #deepdialogue #engagingworkshop #traumaprevention #delawareevent #specialevent

#NEIGHBORS - the time is NOW to talk about the hard topics like ... SEXUAL ABUSE!! Please come out THIS SATURDAY at 4PM to learn about how to PREVENT this tragedy from happening to your child and how to HEAL if such trauma has already happened (or how to discover the truth)!! Moms, Dads, Aunties, Uncles - come out. Tickets are only $10! Get your tickets at Buddy Speaks! #BuddySpeaks

@Shariea_Shoatz your vision, strength and commitment to help our community HEAL from and PREVENT childhood sexual TRAUMA ARE INCREDIBLE!!!!! CONGRATULATIONS for an amazing launch of @buddy_speaks!!! #BuddySpeaks #StopTheTrauma #BreakTheCycle

@Shariea_Shoatz your vision, strength and commitment to help our community HEAL from and PREVENT childhood sexual TRAUMA ARE INCREDIBLE!!!!! CONGRATULATIONS for an amazing launch of @buddy_speaks!!! #BuddySpeaks #StopTheTrauma #BreakTheCycle

I am SO PROUD OF MY SISTER @shariea_shoatz - founder of @buddy_speaks!!! #Today she released her BOOK ENTITLED, “MY VOICE IS MY SUPER POWER!!!” She’s a champion for childhood sexual abuse PREVENTION and HEALING! Please pick up a copy of her book!!!! #BuddySpeaks #BreakTheSilence #ProtectOurChildren

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